III. JEWISH
PERSPECTIVE
An Explanation of the Structure of the Worlds
A Human Being's Place
The Jewish perspective
deals with a human being's place in the cosmos. The Kabala deals
with the human placement in the universe and with the relations of
reciprocity that inhere between human beings and the cosmos. The
human being is perceived as a microcosm whose presence embodies the
essence not only of the entire cosmos, but of the Godly Presence
Itself in all Its glory. Here we derive the exclusive importance of
the human being in the universe, and from this importance is derived
human responsibility for the creation, and human ability to create
rather than merely to flow with creation. Hence the capacity for
choice, which obligates, and which also grants reward and
punishment, and above all the capacity and the privilege of being an
ally to the Creator of the universe – an ally whose influence over
the creation weighs - if such were possible - on a scale with the
Creator's own power.
This fundamental perspective characterizes
Judaism, and sets it apart from all other religious perspectives,
which give man a modest place in the creation, and capabilities that
are not substantively different from those of any other creature.
The mystical belief systems, needless to say, decree an insulting
and humiliating reduction of stature upon the human being. They view
him as the victim of cosmic powers; their influence decides his
fate.
In the Jewish
perspective, a human being possesses powers that surpass every
existing power in the created universe, without exception. Only the
Creator is greater than the human being. Only to one's Creator may
one feel bondage and obligation. Here we derive the obligation to
view – and to relate to – existence through the Divine prism. To
this end, God endowed human beings with Torah and mitsvah. "Let all
your deeds be for the sake of heaven." By way of heaven, one
contemplates one's existence, and rules over it, and over all of
creation. If a human being were to try to relate directly to
existence – that is to say, not through the Divine prism, "the
mosquito preceded you" God rebukes the suffering Job. One loses
one's Godly power – one's quality - the moment one presumes to throw
off the yoke of obligation to one's Creator.
Or HaHaim, in his commentary on the Torah (Vayikra 22) captures
the essence of the Kabalistic perspective with succinct and
methodical clarity: (The Kabalistic perspective has become an
established element of the Jewish worldview, including its differing
factions who have adopted it with no objection.) "And I have seen
fit to awaken human hearts to the great mystery alluded to in this
portion: Know, that Hazal have said (Sanhedrin 93A) that the nation
of b'nei Yisrael – their rank is above the rank of the angels. And
they have said further that God created four worlds, one above the
other. And they are listed (hinted at) in the pasuk in Yeshayahu
(43:7): 'All that is called, by My name and for My glory – I have
created it, I have formed it, I have even made it.' 'For My glory';
the supreme world, which is called atsilut, nobility. 'I have
created it'; which is called olam habria, the world of creation. 'I
have creatively formed it', yetsira, 'creative forming'. 'I have
done it', asiya, doing."
Or HaHaim adds that a parallel exists between
the structure of the worlds and the structure of a human being. In a
human being the levels are physical/emotional life force - spirit -
soul. Just as the worlds are one above the other, and a dynamic
vector exists that binds and unites them according to a fixed order,
from the lower world to the one above it, so a dynamic vector exists
in a human being, which binds the purely physical needs to the
material/emotional needs, binding these in turn to the spiritual
needs, and these to the needs of the soul. (Incidentally, this
dynamic vector has nothing in common with Abraham Maslow's
humanistic theory. Maslow too ranks human needs from basic to higher
– and even to "peak experience". According to Maslow, a higher need
cancels the needs below it, whereas in the gradation of naran:
nefesh, ruah, neshama – physical/emotional of life force - spirit -
soul, all of the stages unite into one texture, with each component
having its own well-defined, active role within the whole structure.
Human beings are
found only in olam hayetsira, "the world of creative forming". (See
section on creativity.) In the world of yetsira, a human being is
sole ruler. Within a human being's own boundaries only, a human
being is omnipotent. Human influence is decisive; the human being
determines the state of affairs, and their meaning and their value.
Human activity is qualitative rather than mechanical. We mean by
quality the ability to create meaning, and to grant new and
ever-changing validity and value to that which exists.
We should note that
the world of yetsira is one's own private world, tailored to one's
own size, and bearing the unique features of one's own authentic
personality. Human creative activity is expressed in one's ability
to use the raw materials found in olam ha'asiya, "the world of
doing" which is the world of physical matter, and which includes all
the components of the survival instinct that are found in
existential reality.
According to this perspective, there is no
significance – neither positive nor negative – to what transpires in
olam ha'asiya. A human being alone determines their function for
good or for evil. In relation to a human being, "the world of
doing", the world of physical matter serves as a reservoir of raw
materials, which lack any feature or capacity of their own. From
olam habria, "the world of creation" which is the world of ideas –
the world of spirituality, values, and quality – human beings draw
values, ideas and qualities, which they then process, and fit to
their own existential conditions according to the levels of nefesh,
ruah, and neshama, physical/emotional life force, spirit, and soul.
The use one makes of these qualities finds practical expression in
giving meaning to the existential reality in which one is immersed
and which is subject to one's control. The self belongs to the world
of yetsira. Ego is subject to the world of asiya. According to the
rules that characterize these values (ego, self) ego is subjugated
by self when one activates one's creative will. Alternatively, self
is subjugated by ego when one does not make one's presence felt in
the creative world, when one is found doing (creating) nothing –
merely immersed in the material level of one's existence that is
found in the world of asiya. The moment a human being activates the
self, a union is formed between the three worlds. In the cover
diagram one can see clearly the connection of ego with its
subjugation to "the world of doing", and the self, with its close
attachment to olam habria, "the world of creation", of ideas and
spirituality. On the other hand, we point as well to the connection
that exists between ego and one's subjugation to "the world of
doing". When a human being activates olam hayetsira, all the other
worlds unite around it. One bestows the raw materials, as mentioned,
and the other the spiritual meaning. As they merge together, an
encounter takes place in the world of creativity. This is the moment
of grace. When a human being neglects his duty in olam hayetsira, a
rupture forms that is potentially disastrous, dividing the worlds
from one another – a consequence of the absolute antagonism that
exists between them. As the Or HaHaim writes: "...You must know that
materialism opposes the spiritual connection more than fire opposes
water." Hence the split, the terrible ripping apart that one
experiences who does not fulfill his role as a creator, who does not
activate his self's uniquely authentic quality. Such a rupture finds
expression not only in one's body and physical/emotional life force,
but in all of creation as well, in cosmic clash and natural
disaster, in that the entire reason nature was created by the
Creator of the worlds was to serve the human being, God's servant.
When one neglects one's role, the very nature of creation's
functioning is affected. Hence, the polar distance that separates
the Jewish perspective from the other religions, which grant the
Creator a central-exclusive role, with man filling a passive,
docile, powerless role; self- nullification sustains his existence
opposite the Lord. This opposition is sharpened further in
comparison with the Far Eastern religions, which see in man's final
and absolute merging into the cosmic vastness, the ultimate goal of
his existence. Opposite these views of God and universe stands the
Jew, as the leader who bears the burden of creation on his shoulder,
and whose influence is felt throughout the worlds. "Everything is
beneath his feet." Actualizing and consolidating the self and its
authentic quality is nothing less than actualizing God's presence in
the universe.
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1. Self and
Ego
Human
activity unfolds within two cycles – a vicious cycle and a virtuous
cycle – that are opposite in character and that interact with one
another. The self is defined as the authentically original
expression of those qualities that characterize an individual as an
autonomous and unique entity. The self includes talents and features
of character such as personal affinities and tendencies. These
include will, human sensitivity, intellectual sensitivity, creative
talent, creative imagination, originality of approach, etc.
From a Jewish
perspective, the self is an expression of the "Godly spark" that is
unique to one as an individual. This spark expresses itself in the
root of the soul of that individual. The self is the sum total of
the unique by which a man differs from his fellow.
The self does not accept outside orders. Its activities are not
dictated by the external stimulations of the environment. Rather,
the self is activated by an inner dynamic born of its Godly element,
which aspires to be actualized in the real existential world,
through the human being who has been given the mandate to actualize
it, within the framework of his role in the universe, for it was to
fulfill this role that his soul came down to the universe, by force
of a law that says that all talent, or any other feature of quality
whose source is in God, aspires to move from potential to actual,
from inner to outer.
The self possesses an energy that in principle
subjugates every existing force of nature found in man and in his
environment – to the extent that this energy is activated by will.
The capacity for free choice, for balanced judgment, for arriving at
a verdict and for making a decision, has its source in the self.
Discerning truth from falsehood and good from evil, accepting
personal responsibility, and all the rest of moral considerations
belong to the territory of the self.
From the distinction
between self and ego, a category for a leader personality is
derived: A leader is distinguished by a self that is strong,
original, qualitative, and powerful, that takes initiative, and that
takes control of the mechanical system, as we have mentioned. This
is also true of all true artists, and of all those blessed with a
uniquely original quality, in their talents, and in their
characters.
Ego
Ego belongs to the mechanical system that
inheres in the nature of the universe. Ego is activated from
without, by the law of brute force; strong versus weak, where the
stronger vector activates or controls the weaker.
An additional feature of ego derives from
this, which represents the system of the world of matter. It is
comprised of the needs of matter, which are a survival or
self-preservation mechanism.
These needs divide into three elementary
components: Kina, ta'ava, vekavod. Envy – possessiveness, lust – the
body's needs, and honor – social needs; a mechanical system devoid
of the abilities that characterize the self. It is devoid of will,
decision, determination, moral/spiritual judgment, free choice, or
personal responsibility. This is a blind system that is not
autonomous and that is not self-activating, just as a machine is not
self-activating, but is activated by an outside force.
An interaction exists between the self
system and the ego system, which follows the classic prescription
for relations between Yaakov and Esav: "When 'the voice is the voice
of Yaakov,' then 'the hands, [which] are the hands of Esav,' do not
rule."
In principle, originally, the self was meant
to activate ego, as a tool giving material realness and expression
to the self. Therefore, when the self takes initiative and control,
ego yields and is subject to the self.
When the self (Yaakov) is inactive, then ego
(Esav) is activated by stimulations that originate from the external
environment. Therefore, our distinction must necessarily catalogue
every egoist as a prisoner of his environment, as a weak character,
rather than as a leader with a big ego, as a western perception
would view him.
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2. Creativity / Self-Preservation
Unlike Western
psychology, which views the self-preservation instinct as the sole
basis and root of motivation for all human actions, we find that
creativity is born of a pair of opposites that work to express the
functional aspect of the pair – self/ego – as two opposite sources
of energy.
Creativity has an internal source of energy,
which urges the expression of creating: The self's authentic
quality.
Creativity moves along a vertical axis. At
its base lies the self. At its summit are gathered the values that
belong to the "dimension of height" in the structure of reality.
"Dimension of height" is the "third scripture" defined in section
seven, which deals with the structure of the "two scriptures that
contradict each other until the third scripture comes and resolves
them".
It is important to emphasize the difference
between the prevailing notion of creativity and what we define as
creativity. In the common understanding of the term, creativity is
anything that deviates from predictable action or that deviates from
a structure of routine activity. Creativity in our understanding is
a feeling, insight, or action that has its source in the uniquely
original quality of a self that is specific to a particular private
individual, and that differs from person to person.
Creativity is not a
response to an external stimulus as is its opposite partner, the
self-preservation mechanism. Creativity is original talent as it
aspires to move from potential to actualization, to direct and mold
action in accordance with its own original way, unique to itself.
The ambition towards self-actualization characterizes every force
that is in a state of dormant potential.
This ambition does not depend only on
stimulations that come from the external environmental system, as
Western psychology believes, for they may not be compatible with the
original uniqueness of the talent that aspires towards expression.
Originality recoils from external directives, for they are the
result of external stimulations that do not suit - that are not
amenable to – the inner need to express that talent unique to the
self.
The dimension of height is the source of
those values that provide creativity with direction and goal, and
that answer the question: Is this activity justified?
To What Purpose?
Creativity does not confine itself to art,
music, and other minor actions. Every human activity is accompanied
by a creative indicator if that activity is adequate to express
one's unique talent, and if it has a value-oriented goal that is
compatible with one's authentic quality. Thus, an activity in the
field of business or social organization or even political activity
can join the creative aristocracy as long as it is tailored to the
unique size of the one involved in it, and as long as it expresses
character, talents, and the values that endow that particular
activity with meaning, content, and justification. When this is the
case, creativity wins the yetser tov's
seal of approval.
Self-Preservation
Self-preservation is
the action opposed to creativity. Its source is a technical
mechanism that attaches to the structure of materialism/brute force.
This structure contains a mechanism that is blind and that is devoid
of qualities, values, or originality. It cannot answer the need for
expression that the qualities of the self have, such as will, free
choice, balanced judgment, and talent.
The need for survival is what exists at the
bottom of the self- preservation system. It does not differ, in man,
from the instinctual system that characterizes every animal. It
belongs to the material nature of creation. It has no workings of
awareness, balanced judgment, or will, but is activated, like every
mechanical system, by an external vector that exerts force on it.
The name of the game in every material/mechanical system is brute
force.
The Torah denies self-preservation as a
fundamental perspective or as an approach to understanding
existence, accepting neither the disappointments and fears that
derive from this approach, nor even the "positive" view found in its
achievements. It sees these as temptation, the aim of which is to
repress and to distance the influence of an existentialism that can
be found only in the cycle of creativity.
The Torah sees
creativity in the symbol of Yaakov, and self- preservation in Esav.
Just as Yaakov's hand grasps Esav's heel, so did creativity and
self-preservation come down to this world joined together. According
to the Godly plan for the creation of man, survival is required to
minister to and to obey creativity's needs and will, and to serve as
the tool that gives substance to creativity, which in turn gives
meaning to human existence.
"And nation from nation will grow mighty, and
the greater will serve the younger." "When 'the voice is Yaakov 's
voice', then 'the hands that are Esav's hands' cannot rule
[Ya'akov]." We see here that a constant tension rules between these
two opposites: Who will dominate whom?
When creativity rules self-preservation--the
yetser hatov (the 'good-creating
urge') rules the yetser hara (the
'evil-creating urge') and thus is fulfilled a cardinal rule of God's
service: "'You shall love God, your Lord, with all of your hearts.'
[The sages explain:] with both of your creating urges." The yetser hara, against its will, replies
'amen' to the yetser hatov, and serves
it humbly.
When creative activity grows weak, the
survival mechanism prevails over it, and drafts it into its own
service. Thus a creative thief is possible, and a uniquely original
murderer – though their ultimate purpose is civilization's
destruction.
This is because survival was not created in
order to ensure its own continued existence, despite its name, but
rather to bestow realness and substance on and to serve as the tool
of the yetser hatov, as a means only. When survival becomes the goal
of existence, it becomes a vicious cycle that destroys itself and
everything in its path.
Behavior based on creativity will be remarkable
for its innovativeness and its courage, and for its intellectual and
artistic achievements. It will preserve its own uniqueness. It will
be capable of dealing with pressures and confrontations, which the
war of existence saves for those who are faint-hearted and weak in
character, who draw their sustenance and courage from the self-
preservation mechanism: The more they drink from this false source,
the weaker they grow, and the more they succumb to the environmental
pressures that surround them in a vicious cycle – reminiscent of a
thirsty man attempting to relieve his thirst with salt water.
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3. "BEING" and
"DOING"
These two opposites can complement each other,
or interfere with each other and even destroy each other, depending
on specific circumstances that we will describe:
"Being" and "doing" are concepts that derive
from the very sense of existence. A form of existence exists that
can be defined as 'being,' and as opposed to this, or alternatively,
man can live with a sense that expresses itself in activity, in
"doing".
The sense
of being is controversial. Some maintain that every sense of
existence is attached to a practical view, to an action that
expresses it. As far as they are concerned, there is no existence –
and mainly no sense of existence – without activity. On the other
hand it appears to us that no activity has a chance of becoming a
sense of existence if it lacks a dimension of "being", an experience
that penetrates into or derives from the inner space of the self.
This means that the self has forms of
expression that endow its existence with substance, and these are
not necessarily dependent on being attached to activities that take
up space in the dynamic world of mechanical "doing".
Lovers' very
experience of 'being together' is a "love is not dependent on
something else", and it is sustained even when no sign of external
communication passes between them, nor any practical cooperation.
'They're just happy being together,' without utterance or sound.
This experience of existence is one of deep and unifying silence.
The experience of
"being" is built on an intimate contact that takes place within the
depths of the self; between the self's need for expression and
actualization and the environmental conditions that respond to this
need. Any other happening that merely passes through the
environment, that is not absorbed by the senses, that does not exist
in the "being" dimension, lacks all significance for that person's
existence.
We must
note that the need for a "being" experience becomes more vital and
necessary the more the component of the self takes central place in
an individual's personality. An individual with a richly original
personality cannot drown it in forgetfulness among the riotous
noises of "doing" that are happening in the environment. The self
that is in one must receive its appropriate attention, directed
toward one's qualitatively unique needs and sensitivities. Small
talk is not to one's liking, nor is following the crowd one's habit.
One can never finish reading a book just because it is fashionable,
or join the "in" crowd, or fit the style of one's existence to
external directives. One's "doing" is attached by a direct bond to
the self's expression of inner being, and takes orders to action
only from the headquarters of one's own specific personality.
"Doing"
"Doing" that is not bound to "being" is that
activity which takes its directive from the external mechanical
system: From fashion, from the pressure of the crowd, from the
intrusion of the public sphere into the Holy of Holies of the
private space. Such "doing" is not necessarily opposed to "being",
as long as it does not substantively contradict the needs of the
self. Only the "doing" that is capable of interfering with those
life needs that characterize uniqueness of personality – the "doing"
that does not serve as an expression for the self's sensitivity and
need for creativity – such "doing" does as it pleases, makes up its
own rules, and threatens one's very sense of existence.
It should be noted
that in a world that seethes like a madly bubbling cauldron due to a
multitude of artificial stimulations that is nearly infinite, which
peep out of every corner every day anew, one who possesses a rich
and authentically original personality feels that he is floundering
in deep waters; there are no fish.
Whereas a meager personality – a person of
paltry uniqueness – on finding himself in the mad cauldron, feels
quite like a fish in water. Because of his lack of inner experiences
and sources of stimulation, he is in need of stimulation from the
outside. He is like that extrovert who requires deafening thunder,
extracted from a grotesque system of amplifiers and drums, in order
to conceal his absence of any experience with the inner happiness of
existence, and his lack of ability to convey the minimal experience
he has. There is no need to speak when deafening noise rules the
atmosphere, and serves as a substitute for the void, emptiness, and
lack of experiences that derive from the source of the self.
This explains the increase in the
external/competitive element: Grades and tests serve as a substitute
for study for its own sake, the indicator of creativity.
This explains the
constant and desperate search for a system that will boost work
activity in business and industry, instead of awareness of the need
to fit "the right person to the right job" or, as we would put it,
the need for a "doing" that fits and expresses the "being" – the
needs of the self.
It is important to note that excessive emphasis
on "doing" can choke the self, by turning the personality into a
machine devoid of human sensitivity. "A break in the fence calls for
a thief", calls for a cruel harshness toward human needs, and calls
for the declaration of every liberal, humanistic theory, as lip
service and as an empty vessel.
The human element that flowers around the inner
kernel of the self is responsible for behavior that overflows with
tact, and for the balance between emotion, mind, and "doing". A
deficiency in the human element causes a destructive clash between
mind and emotion, and is a prime cause of personality deterioration
and mental illness.
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4. Pleasure – Duty
The various
perspectives in western psychology share in common a view that the
distinction-making that is the basis of human behavior is the
distinction between pleasure and duty. As similar to the
distinctions made by every primitive animal that distinguishes
between pleasure and pain, human beings distinguish too between
pleasure and duty. One is drawn after an activity that promises
pleasure, and one flees a situation that threatens pain. Common to
both of these is that they are both stimulations from the outside.
Like the carrot and stick method, they determine the character of
human behavior, just as they determine the behavior of all the other
creatures. The Jewish perspective views both pleasure and duty as
intrinsically legitimate goals.
Unlike Catholics, who see sin in pleasure and
virtue in duty, Judaism relates to both affirmatively when they work
as complementary opposites, and negatively the moment they are
separated from one another.
Precisely the same negative attitude is given
to duty severed from pleasure as to pleasure severed from duty.
Pleasure does not draw its resources only
from the self- preservation instinct, as they believe in the
mechanical-materialistic west. Pleasure is the result of the self's
own fulfillment, having succeeded in expressing and actualizing its
own uniqueness. Such pleasure has no quarrel with the sense of duty.
On the contrary, duty supports it, and celebrates its victory with
it.
The self cannot move from dormant potential
to actualization except along an axis of creativity, which is
supported at its upper end, as mentioned, by the values of the
"dimension of height". From these values, duty draws its strength.
According to this introduction, pleasure would be the expression of
creativity in its perfect state.
Pleasure is comprised – and embraces – the
merging of all emotions, intuition, imagination, and desire. With
their help, it becomes an excitingly dynamic vector, opening – for
the one experiencing pleasure – the vastness of the horizon,
enabling one to embrace the sensation of one's own existence.
This is a sensation that allows one control
over it. One governs it according to one's own will and aspirations,
out of happiness and the soaring vision of free choice made tangibly
real.
Duty
Action done out of duty that belongs to the
survival instinct, coerces man into compulsive behavior, enslaving
and strangling every power of imagination, excitement, and joy of
creation that were in him.
There does indeed exist a duty that is not
related to the survival instinct, but rather draws justification for
its existence from the great umbrella of values that shelters over
the entire vastness of existence, and that includes both pleasure
and duty in its scope.
This being so, we view duty as the
fulfillment of a creative need: It is meant to support and to
fortify the value of the self, and to build the foundations of
positive and negative self-image.
Duty is an expression of responsibility. The
feeling of duty is not caused as a result of fear of punishment, but
rather from the will to experience and to explore one's
capabilities.
Thus is duty tied to feeling, and to the
will to bear responsibility – because responsibility is an
expression of the self's ability to take control of reality, to get
things moving, to determine, to decide, and to lead.
This is the most
tangibly real expression of the power of the self, as opposed to
ego, which is directed by the self-preservation instinct, which is
made up of nothing more than existential fears.
The act of taking control requires fuel.
Duty's energy is drawn from pleasure, and its components are joy and
excitement, as pavers of the emotional path. Through this path flow
creative imagination and intuition, and all other central components
of creativity, pouring meaning and quality into the activity by
which the self takes control of the existential system.
Thus pleasure and duty
join together in mutual complementarity, along the self's creative
route, whereas on the plane of the survival mechanism, both are left
behind, mutually hostile and mutually exclusive: Duty source lies in
existential fear, while pleasure is the compensation for that
fear.
Balance
between duty and pleasure is created through the "third scripture",
which is the value-based "dimension of height" that makes possible
the impossible: To enjoy duty, and to relate responsibly to
pleasure.
Judaism
thus rejects the compulsive moralist no less than the wanton
hedonist who takes no responsibility for his actions.
Judaism does not view either side as
offering a solution for a perfect human being, unless both unite
together under the "dimension of height". Introducing the "dimension
of height" gives perspective to duty and pleasure, enabling these
two opposites to cooperate and pursue a common goal.
An ideal requires, in
order to be realized, the soaring momentum of pleasure ignited by
the fire of the ideal, and in order to take a stable and serious
course, the element of duty, while both of these are motivated by an
elemental motivating force, the power of will. [2]
This enables them to break free of the
self-preservation mechanism, which merely revolves around itself.
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5. Belonging – Freedom
This pair of opposites
is found where the private space and the public space intersect. Its
function is to regulate one's relationship to the other, to the
environment, and to oneself. The various perspectives in western
psychology encounter complications when determining the relationship
between belonging and freedom.
On the one hand, belonging is a goal, the
heart's desire. Happy is one whom everybody likes. Quantitative
evaluation of the measure of popularity decrees the fate of a
candidate's achievements: To life or to death – and not only
politically, but professionally as well, and even academically. Here
we derive a criterion of the similar and accepted one as the
positive one, and the dissimilar one as negative, or at least as
strange.
Yet on the other hand, psychology sees the
march of human development as a march along an axis that opens with
dependency and concludes in independence. What guides society in its
search for an appropriate punishment for the deviant, if not the
removal of his freedom for a given period of time.
Individual rights
parallel individual liberties, and are built around the principle of
the right to freedom: Freedom of expression, freedom of movement,
and the freedom to belong!
Absurdity arises out of this: An
individual's willingness to renounce a considerable portion of the
right to freedom, in order to choose belonging: To a spouse, to
family, or to some other social, religious, or cultural framework.
These are frameworks that impose strict conditions on those who seek
to belong to them, the common factor in all of which is a
renunciation of personal freedom for the sake of belonging to that
specific, demanding framework.
This paradox confounds even the proper
procedures of democracy, because liberalism, which calls civil
freedom sacred, and raises it to the top of the scale of values,
falls from grace the moment it gets into government and must put on
garments of flesh and blood like ordinary people.
This ordinary person
of flesh and blood loses his liberal patience the moment he is
forced to relate to another ordinary person whose bad luck it is
that he does not belong to the accepted and enlightened camp. To
this fellow, the principles of liberalism and social justice do not
apply at all. One may persecute him and slander him until he is torn
out by the roots and eliminated from the liberal landscape of
enlightened society.
Enlightenment, as is well known, is a synonym
for liberal, and liberal, as is well known, is a synonym for
belonging to the camp that for some reason sees itself the correct
camp. Here we see a freedom that is turned into a belonging that is
restrictive, harsh, and intolerant, and that ultimately makes a sham
of the freedom to belong and the right to self-definition.
Our perspective sees
freedom as a derivative function of the self, of the unique, the
authentically original, and the different that characterize one's
quality. It is not only every human being's right, it is also every
human being's obligation to pursue self-definition and
self-expression, on the basis of the self's unique quality. This
right is canceled only and whenever one person's right obstructs
another's path to personal freedom.
Human development too from the first stages of
childhood to maturity can be explained as traveling along an axis
from belonging to freedom: A newborn's sign is absolute belonging
while in its mother's womb. It undergoes a rather cruel wrench from
the umbilical cord as part of the separating liberation.
The stages of its development are
characterized by a continuation of the transition from belonging to
freedom, which finds expression in an increasing need for
independence – until the ideal stage of belonging through freedom,
through the choice of a spouse. "Therefore a man shall leave his
father and his mother and cleave to his wife." So one turns from
belonging to freedom and from freedom to belonging, and it is free
choice – the value-oriented embodiment of freedom, created by
introducing the "dimension of height" – that creates the new
belonging: Belonging through freedom.
Protecting and developing this freedom requires
a protective framework, a preserving vessel. This protective
framework is the need to belong. The vital importance of this need
is derived from that other basic and universally accepted need, the
need for freedom.
A baby belonging to its mother, and a child to
its family, and a man to his wife and to his society, is not
secondary to the need for freedom but rather parallels it in its
vital necessity to human existence.
If a person does not succeed in attaining the
conditions necessary to his belonging (for instance, in the wake of
a war or tragedy that severs his ties to close friends and family)
he may forego his freedom, casting it away as a useless vessel and
even, in the extreme case, despising his own life. "Why should I
live life, if no human being would feel my absence?" a man demanded
once of me, immersed in depression over his lack of belonging. This
man was a healthy and successful person by all conventional
criteria.
Belonging and freedom do not exist and are
not nourished each respectively from its own separate source. The
need for belonging draws from the need for freedom, and vice versa.
They complement one another despite their being essentially
antithetical, and this is due to the mutual nurturing and
fertilizing between them: Belonging is what connects the materials,
stimulations, and conditions of the environment to the self's needs
for expression and creativity. Belonging is what enables a
selective, differentiating attitude, unique to the authentic needs
of the self. The self dictates belonging's goals, and determines its
path and the conditions under which it operates. The self is what
raises the issue of its unique needs (freedom).
A person has no need
of a belonging framework if this framework is inadequate to provide
the self with an expression for its uniqueness, with an attentive
ear, with empathy, with support, and with protection of its freedom.
This existential
absurdity is the secret of belonging to God: This is a belonging
that flows along an axis of hashgaha pratit, Divine Providence at
its top (belonging) and free choice at its base (freedom). This axis
is positioned vertically toward the "dimension of height", and along
its course a unique experience of existence flows, that receives
direction and definition from the "dimension of height". The
"dimension of height" acts as the "third scripture" that resolves
two scriptures that appear to contradict each other by their very
essence – belonging and freedom.
When freedom and belonging are balanced, these
two elements truly come into their own: They find their fullest and
most tangible expression in the framework of the family – a
microcosm of its own – and their noblest and most exalted expression
in the bond between man and his Creator. On the one hand: "I am dust
and ashes." On the other hand: "His heart grew proud in the ways of
God".
It should be
pointed out that the freedom/belonging paradigm can be used to
diagnose and to understand various human behaviors, as well as
determining a wide range of personality categories. As a diagnostic
tool, this paradigm has consistently proven sound.
We mean by this
classifying according to human intellectual qualities, and according
to those that find their expression in art, and even determining
separate categories for male and female. As the role of the
intellectual component increases, so the need to belong decreases,
in favor of the need for freedom.
Objective thought aspires to free itself from
bias, from sticking to the known and fixed tracks, even attempting
to free itself from structures of thought, and concepts that have
the tendency to get in through the back door of "self-evident" and
other mixtures of thinking habits, the rotten fruit of routine and
mental laziness.
The more the influence of the survival
mechanism increases, the more the scales tip toward the eternal
vicious cycle, the blind mechanism that pulls toward belonging,
being that the survival instinct itself is a prime feature of
belonging to the mechanical system of the material nature of
creation.
This
belonging mechanism [3] is a blank, vacuous mechanism,
completely void and devoid of any hope of an ability to break free
of itself. Freedom then would be a prime indicator of spirit, which
rises above the limitations of belonging to space and time.
Belonging Through Freedom--Woman
To speak of family is
to speak of woman. "Honored is the king's daughter within." "His
home – that is his wife." "She is the mainstay of the home."
It is woman's very
nature to create belonging - attraction to her and from her, the
man's attraction to her, and her attraction to him. A woman has the
power and the ability to create a connection – to make another
belong to her, and to belong to another. Even woman's liberation and
her ability to create are crowded into the narrow framework of
belonging. This explains the jealousy that characterizes woman more
than man. "One woman envies the other's loin", Hazal teach us, and
also "a woman recognizes [the true nature of] the guests", and also
"much more insight was given to the woman". Woman is bound in
belonging to the natural biological mechanism more than man. She
demonstrates quicker and superior ability to adjust (to belong) to
the environment, and to sudden change, and is blessed with senses
and with survival/existential instincts that far surpass the man's
in their efficiency.
She is the framework that creates the container
that expresses and preserves all that her man has to offer (if he
has anything to offer). Alternatively, she will show impatience and
indifference to a man who is not compatible, in his content, with
her ability to create an actualizing container.
Here we can understand
woman's natural belonging to space and to time – to the extent that
the Torah saw no need to obligate her to perform time-bound
commandments. These were intended to ground the man, who lacks
belonging, and to attach him to a tangible reality that possesses
dimensions of space and time.
The principle of ideal union between
belonging and freedom finds its prime human expression in the love
of man and woman, toward realization of the ideal union between
cosmic male and female. "For all is in heaven and in earth."
From the religious
perspective, belonging brings one to awe of God, to humility and to
bitul hayesh, canceling ego. Freedom brings one to love, which means
initiative and choosing to belong.
"A slave is comfortable with moral abandon,"
meaning precisely the slave, who represents the extreme of
belonging, separated from all freedom – precisely this belonging
causes a reaction to the opposite extreme, to a freedom that lacks
belonging – moral abandon; freedom without responsibility.
A law of the
fundamental structure of creation: It is built of opposites that
complement one another by virtue of (their merging through) "the
third scripture". "By God's word, Heaven was made." "For in His high
mightiness, He created the high vault of the heavens."
This is the "third
scripture" that unites – and creates a dynamic vector out of – the
tensions born of the two opposing factors. The dynamic vector
creates unity and complementarity between antagonists.
When there is no such
triangular structure, there is no service of God, and relating to
the "dimension of height" is not feasible since a relating that
creates awe but not love exposes itself to pressure from the
opposite direction, and eventually succumbs to that pressure,
becoming freedom's opposite reaction: "Insolence thrives," moral
abandon.
Love that
is a product of freedom with no container, flows into channels that
stimulate it and drag it into becoming a love with no "dimension of
height", which becomes a love that enslaves, erases the self, blurs
the image, and then repeats the process.
A dynamic vector operates within belonging:
The initiative to belong to the good versus the urge to belong to
evil. Oy li miyitsri v'oy li miyotsri.
"Woe to me from my creature('s urge) and woe to me from my
Creator('s urge)." The freedom that enters the picture then chooses
the positive belonging – belonging out of free choice:
- Belonging/hishtadlut, investing effort
- Freedom/bitahon
baHashem, confidence in God.
- Choice.
- Hishtadlut
and bitahon regulate one another by
relating to the "dimension of height", to awe and to love.
This dynamic relationship fluctuates
according to one's dependency on the "dimension of height". What was
confidence, bitahon, today might be
the obligation to invest effort, hishtadlut, tomorrow, and vice versa.
Of Yissachar, the
pack-bearing donkey, the Zohar says (section 1, 242; 2) that he did
not love his duty because of its pleasingness and goodness, but
rather desired it because of its yoke and its burden (belonging).
For there is no greater rest for the spirit than the bearing of
burden willingly (belonging) through choice and through freedom.
Hishtadlut in the
direction of the "dimension of height" saves one hishtadlut in the direction of the battle
for existence; a value- oriented hishtadlut in place of an existential hishtadlut.
An artist and a
child stand on opposite sides of the fence: The artist stands on his
freedom – freedom of the spirit. The child is tied by his umbilical
cord to his mother, to his family. Grant the child freedom and he
will not know what to do with it, and he will bring it to his
mother. An artist seeks to reveal the unique and the authentic.
Routine is the artist's enemy; it is the very embodiment of
belonging to the material frameworks. Soaring vision and imagination
run away from any belonging to the present, to space and to time.
Hence, the artist's tendency to reject conventional assumptions – of
society, of fashion, of religion, of family, and of all the other
frameworks of belonging that chain an individual to society, to the
public, and to all the other conventional assumptions.
Attitude to the Law
Our attitude to the
law is an embodiment of obligatory social belonging. A model for the
developmental process of this belonging can be found in research
conducted by Swiss developmental psychologist Jean Piaget.
Piaget investigated
children's attitude to the law through their attitude to the rules
of playing marbles. At age six, the children related to the rules of
the game as to an absolute and sacred value. The rules originated in
God, they reasoned, or in the House of Parliament. One could never,
and it was forbidden to change the rules of the game in any way,
under any circumstances. At age ten, the children attributed the
rules of the game to the big children in the eighth grade. Only they
were allowed to change the rules of the game.
It was only at age
thirteen that Piaget received an answer at the democratic level:
Children of our own age invented the rules of the game, and if all
agree, we can decide to change the rules any way we wish.
A citizen's attitude
to the law indicates his level of maturity no less than his level of
culture. Excessive recourse to the law represents the grasp of a
drowning man, in a sea of reality that is too complex for his level
of maturity: A belonging that does not stand in balanced
relationship with one's freedom.
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6. 'Head,' 'Hand'
and 'Heart'
"And you shall bind them as a sign on your
hands, and they will be as totafot between your eyes, and you will
write them on the doorposts of your house and in your gates."
Their union is choice's goal – the very
heart of choice, with the help of a device called will.
Head, hand, and heart
are symbols that point to three paths through which attitude and
activity flow between oneself and one's universe, between oneself
and one's environment. Some use, with a similar meaning, the symbols
of thought, speech, and deed: Thought-head, speech-heart, and
hand-deed, activity. These are tools that express the talents that
are the devices that create the sense of existence.
A guiding principle:
Note that each of these relates to only one dimension of the sense
of existence, and is inadequate to fill or encompass it all.
'Head'
One thinks in order to fill existence's need to
understand events, and to predict in order to be able to plan ahead,
to organize one's existence around a goal that gives it meaning, and
that answers the need to know: "For what purpose?" "Why?"
...Intelligence.
'Heart': Binat HaLev, the Heart's Insight
Heart as the source of emotions, as in
emotions of love, hate, fear, and all the other emotions that make
possible a personal relationship to existence. Yearning, aspiring to
attain a goal with which one identifies as the object and purpose of
one's existence, getting excited, devoting oneself, undergoing
personal change, rejecting, withdrawing – and all the other emotions
capable of halting one's sense of existence.
Mechanical-Quantitative Intelligence
Qualitative Intelligence
It is customary to
view intelligence as the ability to attribute connections and
causes, and to build a unified structure out of existence's
components, in the present, past, and future. Intelligence today is
defined quite well, and has even won numerical measurement, in the
framework of I.Q. It is divided into defined sections according to
the various functions of thought.
It appears to us that an intelligence
assumed as such can be no more than partial. It expresses thinking's
technical ability – technical-functional – which measures and
evaluates dynamic relationships between the components of a given
situation. We call this function by the name of 'connecting
intelligence', and its role is to study the dynamic field created by
the components of a defined, given situation. It includes memory
(input/output), absorption and discharge of information, and its
functional application.
IQ tests suffice with measuring absorption
and discharge, with the functions of precision, order, and method,
and speed of grasp. From here we can see that a person possessing a
high Intelligence Quotient is different from a person possessing a
low Intelligence Quotient in the capacity to absorb and discharge
information, in precision and speed, and in the ability to apply
information to a given situation. We may add that this ability helps
in finding solutions to problems. Helps only, but cannot bear sole
responsibility for the solution of the problem, because a person
with a high Intelligence Quotient is able to think with greater
efficiency and precision than the person with the lower Intelligence
Quotient, but he is not able to think differently than him, or with
greater originality and innovativeness – with greater efficiency but
not differently. Therefore, we call Intelligence Quotient by the
name of mechanical-quantitative intelligence, as different from
qualitative intelligence that does not flow through the path of
'head' but rather through the path of 'heart' specifically.
Emotion – Imagination – the Heart's Insight
The heart's
insight includes intuition, which is composed of an inner sense of
emotional identification with the object that is being thought
about, with imagination joining the party. Thus is born the
intellectual experience. This is an immeasurably richer experience
than mere intelligent thinking. Intellectual quality, in addition to
and as different from intelligence as a device, contains also
values. It binds together thinking, emotion, and personal
identification, which encompass and penetrate the inner essence of
the object being thought about, connect the thinking person with the
object being thought about, and turn it into a new existential
experience; into creativity as we define it. (See
creativity/self-preservation).
Measuring Intelligence Quotient lacks the
intelligent quality, the components of which are: Originality,
sensitivity to subtleties, and creative imagination. These are the
components of quality, and without them, the experience of
intellectual innovation is not feasible.
Mechanical-quantitative talent deals only with
examining what exists, with criticism, comparison, and measurement,
with the methodical evaluation and arrangement of material; in
short, with scientific research, but not with artistic innovation or
creation.
From here we draw the conclusion that high
level literary artists such as Tolstoy, Dostoyevsky, Lawrence,
Flaubert, and others, demonstrate an ability to penetrate and
comprehend the human mind that far surpassed that of Freud and other
great figures in the "science" of psychology. Likewise, an artist
demonstrates an intelligence that in quality far surpasses that of
Aristotle, Newton, and Einstein, whose inventions are impressive
only by virtue of their mechanical functionalism, and their benefit
lies only in their pragmatic utility for the external functioning of
existence, having no trace of a contribution to the quality of life.
It would seem that even a mechanical/quantitative intelligence
superior to that which served the man of science would have been
necessary in order to write the sort of works that many of the
literary artists wrote.
Qualitative
Intelligence
As different from quantitative-mechanical
intelligence that reaches maturity during adolescence (age fifteen)
qualitative intelligence is only just beginning. Therefore a person
whose development is arrested at this age will not attain
qualitative intelligence at all, in that emotional maturity is
crucial to the development of qualitative intelligence, for its
purpose is to shape human quality.
Emotional maturity is given to definition and
to treatment, in our opinion, just as every human ability deserves
education and treatment in order that it might continue to thrive.
For emotional maturity to grow and thrive,
confrontation with the very experience of existence is required – a
wide range of experiences that require contending and coping with
the environment and with oneself. We do not mean the one-sided
coping that deals with 'head' alone, or with 'hand', with the life
of action only, as is typically forced upon young people who have
not yet completed their maturity. Security obligations in the form
of required military service, or the labor of earning a living at
too early an age, would constitute an example of 'hand' coercing
'head' and 'heart', paralyzing the wellsprings of wisdom and
feeling, closing the heart's openness, and its ability to receive
and to learn new lessons.
Spoiling
Spoiling is
the danger from the opposite direction, for it too prevents one from
personally contending with the experience of existence and
confronting hardships. A spoiled person expects others (parents and
friends) to solve problems that he would have been capable of
solving for himself. This person finds himself on the sidelines of
life, which passes by him as a spectacle in which he takes no part.
The Rich Personality
A third factor in
emotional maturity is complexity and richness of personality. The
more a personality is multi-faceted and rich, the more time it
requires to mature.
Heart: Abode of
the Talent for Humanness
Whereas qualitative intelligence requires the
services of mechanical intelligence – in which quality and quantity
merge with one another as content and container – the talent for
humanness guards its aristocratic independence and its special
quality.
This human talent, the talent for empathy,
grants the ability to understand behavior, to detect its external
factors and its internal causes, through the miracle of identifying
with another.
For a miracle it is, since the capacity to
identify with another does not derive from any combination of
causes, nor from any analysis of personality components. It is
intuition, deriving from an emotional empathy that has no rational
explanation. It would seem correct to associate empathy with art, or
even with spiritual values. Understanding another is art mixed with
values.
Artistic talent does not unfold at the
binary level, nor does it deal with re-hashing what is already known
and given. The artist deals with what exists, but his aim is to move
past superficial reality. He seeks after the causes and laws that
are above and beyond the given.
An artist is capable of reaching into the depth
of an image and revealing its hidden roots, and then illuminating it
by a light that the image itself could not have brought forth.
An artist attains this revelation by
sensitive, penetrating introspection, through personal involvement,
and sometimes even through a mystical bonding with those higher
roots of a humanness that belongs to the Godly core. For humanness
is the uniquely original quality that characterizes a private
individual, who is an entire universe unto himself, something of a
microcosm of all the worlds, and not a detail, not a cog in the
general machine.
Human talent – empathy – is not dependent on
talents of any other category. It is a talent that is rarely
occurring, and found at its best only in a small segment of society.
Women have been blessed with it more than men. This talent is found
usually – though not necessarily – in combination with a high level
of sensitivity. Despite the fact that it belongs to its own
independent source, it is bound to causative thinking-- of the sort
that aids in understanding, and in reasoning, and that is far
removed from linear or mathematical thinking.
For this reason, those
who possess the quality of human empathy, tend to be uninterested in
numbers, chess games, and technical issues. Their thinking is closer
to 'the heart's insight,' that intuitive wisdom that is comprised of
emotion and imagination, and removed from the colder
external/objective forms of analysis. Human insight takes place in
the inner spaces of the self, being related to the human quality,
which is the abode of creative original thinking, and of
understanding causality – traits that have their source in God.
A person who possesses
the gift of human empathy is destined for human work, for dealing
with people. The greater his human quality, the more he will be
involved with the innermost view of human behavior, and the less he
will be satisfied with involvement in the "doing" fields, such as
business, sales, marketing, and even medicine or law, but rather
only issues that are educational and emotional/spiritual.
An interesting detail
characterizes these people: They incline away from one specifically
defined profession, and are in perpetual doubt as to which
profession to choose, in that their curiosity drifts from one
occupation to another.
It appears to me that this multi-faceted
tendency derives from their destiny for a human calling, which
relates to human beings who are all different from one another.
Therefore one who is occupied with them and discerns the heart of
each one of them, must himself contain a broad range of tendencies
that can encompass the tendencies of many people.
What is common to
those people who tend to work at a wide spectrum of occupations is
that they possess "human talent", and that it occupies a central
place in their personality.
We must note further that "human talent" can
accompany those who possess intellectual personalities, just as it
can be found among deeply emotional people, and even among practical
and business people, being that "human talent" dwells at the
crossroads, where head, hand, and heart intersect.
It contains them, yet
they do not contain it, and therefore, I would tend to place human
talent – the talent for empathy – at the top of the scale of talent
priorities.
The cooperative
role of head, heart, and hand, and the damage incurred by an absence
of one of them from the functioning system.
Whenever any
one of these operates in isolation, it turns into a destructive
force, which results in the following symptoms:
'Head' without 'hand' and
'heart': [4]
The absent-minded professor or the detached
genius.
Skeptical responses; lack of
certainty.
Thinking that is empty of anything personal,
anything original. Binary, critical thinking that is limited to the
ontological, the here and now, within a framework and within rules
that characterize systematized, global patterns:
Only what is there.
Thinking devoid of personal involvement,
lacking in concrete realness.
Accompanying sensations:
Despair, cynicism, warped judgment, distorted
logic.
Excessively speculative thinking
Lack of straightforward 'common sense'
comprehension.
Senility.
'Heart' without 'head' and
'hand:' [5]
Lack of permanence and consistency.
Indiscriminate expression of emotions that are fleeting, that come
and go, born of the external environment. The intuitive inner space
lacks tangible realness, seriousness, or responsibility, in that
value-oriented thinking is the result of a cooperation that unites
the three.
Isolated emotionalism drags in its wake an
approach to reality that is influenced by the outside stimulations
of the self- preservation mechanism, in that this mechanism is
composed entirely of environmental conditions.
Characteristic
features: Egocentric, childish attitude lacking in scope and
balanced judgment, lacking in stability and permanence, inability to
withstand pressures.
This egocentric attitude is accompanied by a
contradiction in the form of perpetual distress from the frustration
of the human- social need, because 'heart' requires social
belonging, yet egocentricity impedes the stable, responsible bonding
processes, which is based on the element of reciprocity.
This contradiction creates excessive – yet
fleeting – emotional involvement to the point of loss of self,
undiscriminating excitement – a car without a steering wheel.
Symptoms: Anger, insult, jealousy-hatred or falling madly in love,
panic, attacks of temporary insanity, mental ailments, helplessness,
psychosomatic symptoms such as blood pressure, chronic fatigue,
breakdown.
'Hand' without 'head' and 'heart' [6]
A cruel machine.
Harshness that obeys environmental directives. Pushes aside personal
involvement and encourages brutal and reactionary behavior.
Mechanical behavior, "doing" without
"being", absence of moral/human balanced judgment. Dependency upon
experts.
Childishness, emotional retardation.
Systematized behavior that erases the
original/personal, which is rejected as "over-qualified".
An objective, scientific,
logical-mathematical approach dominates all areas of life.
A danger of the entire
package of head/hand/heart coming undone out of a blind belief in
the scientific-objective system, plus an arrogant contempt for
anything to do with the language of heart and spirit. This explains
the absence of creativity, values, or morality. Sexual deviations,
physical lust unchecked by mind or values – what is common to all
parts of the package that has come undone is an inability to cope
with life.
Certainty:
Separation between the three immortalizes
doubt, in that each one cancels out the other. What the 'hand'
discovers, the 'head' and the 'heart' will declare void, and vice
versa. The sense of certainty is the result of a merging between all
three, from which grows "the heart's insight". "My heart tells me."
Harmony between the three is a vital condition for peace of mind.
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7. Two
Scriptures: Complementary Opposites
"Two
scriptures contradict one another, until the third will come and
resolve them." This rule of Rabbi Akiva's constitutes a key to the
interpretation of halacha. The Jewish
principle of unity sees halacha as the
foundation for a perception of life that includes and encompasses
the sum total of all behaviors of man and universe. Therefore the
rules of halacha express the principle
of unity by bearing an existential meaning as well.
The concept of Godly unity creates a dynamic
vector within a dualistic, antagonistic structure. Two elements that
are antithetical in their essence, yet possess the potential to
complete one another, create unity in their encounter.
The condition of
completeness is created by the intervention of a third side, by the
intervention of the Creator of the universe, or of his
representative, the human being.
Shamayim – heaven
– is derived from esh – fire – and mayim – water. "By God's word, Heaven was
made." "For by His rebuke He created the vault of the heavens." God
"rebuked" the two opposing elements – fire and water. His rebuke was
the "third scripture," the third component that was introduced into
the system of two antagonistic elements. In its merit, it prevailed
over the two opponents, and encouraged the potential for
complementarity and compatibility that lay hidden in them.
So it is in the whole
of creation, and so too in heaven, including the Godly force that
rules creation, which too in its dynamic view consists of a fusion
of two complementary forces: Dukra,
male, and nukva, female. When the
human being, who represents God in the creation, succeeds in uniting
these two opposites, his sphere of influence rises to the heights,
even exerting a unifying effect on the dynamics of heaven, upon dukra and nukva. (Union is reflected in the two kruvim, 'cherubs' of the mishkan: At a moment of grace, the
'cherubs' of the Temple were found embraced, as male and female
during union. At a moment of wrath, they turned away from each
other, their faces averted.)
Through this imagery we are to understand the
constructive and destructive dynamics in the behavior of the
creation: "A time for war and a time for peace," and all the other
"times" that are in Kohelet, Ecclesiastes. This three-dimensional
structure contains two opposing elements, while above them the role
of the human being, which is to seek or to find, and to firmly place
into a given situation the element of values – the "dimension of
height"– in the form of an aspiration or a goal that endows the
situation with meaning and direction.
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8.
Matriarch-Patriarch
For those who ask where human relations fit in
according to my approach, I usually respond that they fit with the
pairs of "doing" – 'being,' and of 'matriarch' – 'patriarch.' On the
surface of things it appears that I should have attributed the
ability to create and sustain human relations to the human talent,
to empathy, since we have devoted such a place of honor to human
empathy as a central component of personality within the innermost
space of the personality, at the "being" level. And if we were to
continue to attribute connections, we would not deny that
belonging-freedom find their main qualitative expression on the
plane of human relations, in the cycles of public-private
interaction.
Nevertheless, it seems to me that the
creative workshop where human relations are formed and consolidated,
at their earliest stages – before they come forth into the light of
day by being exercised through social channels – is in the pair
'patriarch' – 'matriarch.' This is their birth place, through a
fusion of the basic components of the Divine, which is reflected in
the foundation and in the mystery of the forming of creation.
Dukra / Nukva
Male / Female
The kruvim, "cherubs" in the Beit Hamikdash
that sheltered over the aron habrit, Ark of the Covenant in the kodesh kodoshim, Holy of Holies were
formed in the image of children, in which one was male and one was
female. At a time of grace in heaven, they would unite.
The kodesh kodoshim in the Mikdash and the Mishkan were an earthly reflection of
heavenly sanctity. "For all is in heaven and in earth. Yours, God,
is greatness and might, etc." The Mikdash, as is known, constituted a place
of encounter between heaven and earth, in which the most basic
opposites of the creation, matter and spirit, attained completion.
This encounter came about through the reflection of the heavenly
structure within the earthly structure.
Earthly male and earthly female are a
faithful reflection of the heavenly structure, which too relates to
creation by an image composed of united male and female. Male is the
actor, the influencer, and female is the acted upon, the influenced.
Alternatively, giver and receiver, or contained and container.
We have before us a structure that reflects
power and spirituality in two forms – influencer and influenced. In
heaven, masculine power contains judgment and the power that
receives, that is feminine, contains compassion.
When the universe was whole, and connected
to heaven, the heavenly reflection was discernible in the form of
'the measure of judgment' and 'the measure of compassion.'
Once the Temple was destroyed, the package
came undone (from a superficial perspective only). Earthly male and
earthly female became mere power vectors, fixed from that time
onward into a dynamic of tension between opposites, between
conquering male and conquered female, "and he shall rule her,"
including all the conflicting tensions inherent between male and
female, which reach their peak and their fiercest intensity in the
human creature, for better and for worse. It is in the human
creature also, that they attain reconciliation.
In the heavenly
reflection, 'male' was expressed as the 'measure of judgment', as
mentioned. This is the harsh measure, straightforward and direct,
reflecting truth, in its naked and pure form. The "measure of
judgment" is measured in absolute power, in that it draws its
strength from the measure of truth and justice, which serve as both
its expression and its basis.
With the great break between heaven and earth,
at the destruction of the Beit
Hamikdash, the "measure of judgment" (of truth) was left in
heaven, while coarse and brutal force was left in all its nakedness
on the face of the earth. This force did not recognize, nor was it
supported by any values of truth at all.
Hazal reveal
to us that "the Holy Blessed One saw that the universe could not
stand with the 'measure of judgment,'" [with the harsh measure,
Ramban adds,] "therefore He stood and mixed the 'measure of
compassion' with the 'measure of judgment.'" From that time onward,
brute force could not stand alone and continue to exist, and it was
forced to accept marriage with the soft "measure of compassion".
"Patriarch" from that
time on, is that which reflects coarse brute force, which finds
expression in human relationships, between private individuals and
in the public domain. "Patriarch" is that which exploits its greater
strength to subjugate and dominate the weaker.
At the level of the
heavenly reflection, power appears charged with the 'measure of
judgment', a measure that expresses the values of judgment: Justice,
honesty, honor, awe, and authority. Its business is the direct
response between a sinner and his punishment.
When it is not mixed with the 'measure of
compassion', this measure appears in a state devoid of mercy,
kindness, flexibility, tolerance, and all other issues of loving,
forgiving consideration that eat at the table of "the measure of
compassion".
"Until the third scripture [the 'dimension
of height'] comes and resolves them." It will teach them both how
the measure of awe stands firmly, and bows humbly before the measure
of love, and learn tolerance from it, and leniency and consideration
for human limitations, and more of compassion's measures of the same
kind.
As opposed to this, 'the measure of
judgment' enhances love with regularity and discipline, and a scale
of good and evil, and boundaries, and other similarly marketable
currencies from the world of "doing".
Thus love comes out strengthened and in
control, and empowered to distinguish and to discriminate between
"love that is dependent on something else" and love that is not. It
learns the meaning of "one who is compassionate toward the cruel
will end by being cruel toward the compassionate", and by making
judgment into compassion and compassion into judgment, confusing the
orders of universe and society.
They come forth arm in arm, in the end, in
the figure of Father – the 'measure of judgment,' that establishes
boundaries and principles and goals, and Mother – imbuing Father's
principles with love, concerned with fitting them to the children's
capacity to absorb.
Indeed it is into the microcosm of the nuclear
family that the elements of heaven come and receive their
existential tangible substance. We see from this that male and
female, when there is love and unity between them, bring heavenly
male and female to perfect unity-which is good for heaven and good
for the universe.
Similarly awe and love, and judgment and
compassion assist one another and arrive at unity, and coarse
materialistic brute force cannot celebrate its victory, as it has
celebrated it in the historical past, marked and stained with the
blood of citizens persuaded by nationalistic movements, the
offspring of brute force that appears in the center arena when the
people have no vision to unite them around a ideological, moral, or
spiritual goal.
How
very wretched then becomes the relationship between the opposites,
patriarch and matriarch, when the "third scripture" does not resolve
them. Wretched, for the simple reason that brute force knows no
other pleasure than humiliating its weaker rival: "Because you
drowned someone, they drowned you, and in the end, your drowners
will be drowned," Hazal warn. What you caused to others will be
caused to you. When one gets to the top of the mountain, there is no
higher to go. One will come down in the end, to make room for
another.
The
ancient states, tribes, and races teach us this important lesson
through their own stories. Rome, mistress of kingdoms, attained the
pinnacle of brute force in the ancient era, only to be broken by
savage tribes in the end.
No more did the world believe in the eternity
of brute force. Turning its back on might, it found its total
antagonist from the opposite direction – matriarchalism. Pity and
love, identifying with the other, understanding (psychology!) and
tolerance promised protection and stability at an apparently lower
price than its brutal adversary.
Both of them, brute force and pity as well, had
bloomed in the garden of survival. Brute force promised survival
through the use of force and subduing the adversary, the enemy, by
modes of cruelty and fear, and a hierarchical, authoritarian rule
that imposed law and order, while the competing matriarch offered
peace among nations, which cancelled the need for war and
aggression, automatically canceling the need to be stronger.
The slogan "make love not war" is an
illusion capable of seducing pacifistic souls who labor under
delusions, which must eventually crash to the ground of existential
and historical reality. Christianity carved the seduction of love
upon its banner, stumbled on its own path, and never hesitated to
make use of the swords of Crusaders and Inquisitions that sowed
destruction and murder in their path to religious redemption.
The United States as
of today represents the peak flowering of the matriarch, and we have
the opportunity to examine and to compare what has become of this
compassionate approach. The world that flows with signs of
matriarchalism overflows with blood. Bloodshed and cruelty seem to
have moved up a grade in the twentieth and twenty-first centuries,
which preen themselves with the feathers of liberalism, tolerance,
and love.
Also in the human microcosm, in the bosom of
the family of man, in which the father represents the patriarch, the
man of principles and order, and the mother – love, compassion, and
tolerance, the situation has never been brighter in the matriarchal
era.
The young
criminal blossoms as part and parcel of primitive societies, where
the beast stumbles over his own sword – yet he flourishes just as
well in the matriarchal society, among the wellborn, from the best
families, well-treated and pampered.
We have before us additional proof for our
claim that without the "dimension of height", sheltering over the
pair of opposites, hostility blooms between them, and separates
them. When each does not complete its fellow, the patriarchal is
left with its cruelty and the matriarch with its loose weakness,
lacking any stable principles or red lines, and ending by being
compelled to defend itself against the strong one, who would conquer
it, take its place, and rule the family of man.
These things actually
turn out to be quite illuminating at the microcosmic level of the
family: In patriarchal societies, the father takes the central role,
as single and solitary ruler, to whose will, all must bow. The
mother takes a secondary place; she lacks all authority, being
nothing more than the meek servant of father and children. We do not
need to exercise our imagination excessively in order to predict the
behavior of children who have been raised in the lap of cruel
brutality, devoid of consideration for the rights of others. The
rule is: Whoever is stronger is more admired, and his right to live
is greater than the right of the weak, who is a scorned and
contemptible creature.
In a matriarchal family (a contemporary family)
single-parent families bloom – meaning, families where the mother
plays the exclusive role. The father serves as a milking cow, whose
role is to fill the duties of butler, servant, and menial laborer.
One would have expected of the matriarchal
family – where the atmosphere, values, and education that prevail
are imbued with love for the other – that it would produce progeny
of pleasing ways, for whom love, kindness, and compassion would be
their guiding light. Yet here to everyone's disappointment, the
progeny comes forth an overindulged egoist who expects the measure
of kindness and mercy from others, whereas he himself relates to
others as though they are obligated to him. For his part, he himself
feels no commitment toward others, and ends by robbing his fellow
creatures, and finding himself in prison in the company of his
fellow criminal from the patriarchal society. One by virtue of brute
force, and the other by virtue of a compassion that lacks any
understanding of the principle of balance between receiver and
giver, united in service of the "dimension of height", which unites
them through a commitment that is at once value-oriented, spiritual,
and moral.
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9. The Power of Will
Will: Inner
Brute
Force: Outer
Will is the force that executes free choice,
whose goal is achieved by will. It is the very heart of choice and
its goal; it is the unifying merger of 'head,' 'hand' and 'heart'.
Will is not related to any of the other
forces that make up reality's cybernetic cycle. It is not part of
any larger mechanism, nor stimulated by any outer vector. It is its
own primordial force from which a human being begins to activate his
behavioral mechanism in all its aspects.
Will does not exist in the other creatures, and
was given directly to human beings by the Former of human beings. In
the ability to activate the power of will, a human being resembles
the Creator Himself in all His glory. Recognizing the basic nature
of will is prerequisite to understanding free choice.
A precondition of the
ability to activate will is liberation from the mechanical systems,
for it sends its stimulations from the outside. Whereas will belongs
to the qualitative inner essence, the mechanical system belongs to
the outside, to the environment.
From this, an equation:
Will = Inner Space = Quality = Uniqueness =
Self = Creativity.
Outer Space = Mechanism
= Materialness = Brute Force = Ego = Self- Preservation.
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10. HUMAN
BEINGS UNITE THE WORLDS
"Awakening of the Lower"
"Awakening of the Higher"
From Inner to Outer
Will
expresses Godly quality. The dynamic feature of this quality is a
tendency to self-expression, to moving from a state of dormant
potential to a state of realized potential. Will is the expression
of this tendency, which flows from inner to outer.
This awakening is the
expression of free choice seeking its Creator, yearning to connect
with Him, dvaikut. "Open for me [even only] an opening as the point
of a needle."
The initiative taken by human choice arouses
itarut dil'aila, the Higher awakening", as a response to: "My
beloved's voice is knocking [at my door.]" This response is
expressed by personal attention from heaven to the individual or to
the community that has taken the initiative. It is a response of
hashgaha pratit, "private Providence" that is granted human beings
in proportion to and to the extent of their awakening from below
through choice. Thus is formed the bond between human being and
Creator.
Quality
differs from person to person, and it is that which determines one's
different and unique character. The greater the quality, the more
powerful the will. Quality's will dominates, enslaves, and
occasionally even pushes aside the survival mechanism's existential
needs.
Thus a sense
of existence that relies on expectations of the mechanical systems'
proper functioning, is substituted for a qualitative experience of
Godly will, as it is expressed both in human beings and in the
Torah.
In this
way, the existential axis of inner-outer is canceled in favor of an
axis of inner-higher,
according to the following structure: "For your saving I have hoped,
God. I have hoped, God, for your saving. God, for your saving I have
hoped."
This is a three-staged mechanism. At the
lowest stage, one still feels dependent on the existential needs of
the survival mechanism.
At the second stage, one feels the awakening
of yearning to connect with height.
At the third stage, one feels the need to
identify with God, on one's journey towards self-actualization as a
Godly presence. One no longer feels ego's sense of existence.
The three stages might be defined thus:
From outer to inner, as a first stage.
From inner to outer, as a second stage.
From inner to higher, as a third stage.
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Footnotes:
[1] For example, two pairs of qualities
that are fundamental – strong/weak and wise/foolish – are erased
from psychology's "politically correct" list of personality and
behavior components, not to mention values, which met the same fate.
[2] See section 9, Power of Will,
regarding this term.
[3] The
belonging decreed by the survival mechanism is devoid of the power
of free choice. Compulsion and enslavement stamp their image on such
behavior.
--The
Peter Principle and Parkinson’s Law celebrate, and create the
systematic method, which seizes control of all functional systems.
Frankenstein turns on his creator. Human beings find themselves
trampled by mechanical systems that swell to grotesque proportions.
The rules of the game slip out of human control.
--“Politically
correct” behavior prevents people from being spontaneous. Language
itself loses its main function as personal expression, and turns
into a communications system. Also written language loses the
personal tone. (The accepted style for academic research is
notorious for its barrenness and ugliness.)
--Bureaucracy instead
of a personal relationship, and localized thinking undoes all good
achievements even in medicine, which treats the disease, loses the
patient, and drives other patients into the warm, natural arms of
alternative holistic medicine.
--The primitive person is the real victim, in
that he has difficulty adjusting to a complex and arbitrary system
that does not consider the immediately felt reality. He becomes
entangled with the law, which is the prime expression of arbitrary
systemization. He talks back to the judge and is indicted for
contempt of court.
--Statistics, with its scales of probability,
push aside the real local components of reality. Clinging to
reference sources puts quotation in place of understanding and
explanation – though the Talmud asks: “Why do I need text? It is
simple reasoning” – and in place of creative thinking and judgment,
and suppresses originality.
--One refrains from taking responsibility,
evades the need to stand behind one’s actions, and takes advantage
of the cover of the system. Blame for wrong decisions is placed on
the lowest-ranking recruit. Administration is never wrong.
--The most painful
result is the arrest of human/emotional development at the age of
childhood, the signs of which are emotional retardation, a lack of
comprehensive and balanced judgment, localized responses according
to immediate environmental stimulus, a dependency upon immediate and
fleeting gratification, and a loss of the ability to withstand
pressures.
--Lack
of human/personal relatedness . Politeness devoid of content in
place of profound gratitude. Human values are pushed aside.
--Compassion for
animal and plant life, at the expense of the real needs of man, who
is pressed into crowded building blocks and ghettoes so as not to
disturb the scenery or the earth.
--Tactlessness.
--The law’s intervention in interpersonal
relationships, and the damage this causes to human/spiritual values:
Enslavement to the law in a compulsive and blind fashion appropriate
to a six-year-old's conception of law makes a sham of the principle
of mutual agreement, and becomes a legal dictatorship. The citizen
loses his rights to the system, which decides his needs for him
according to rules of a game that is devoid of sensitivity to
individual rights and needs.
“Pious fool” is the term the Sages of the
Talmud apply to the man who fears the prohibition of contact with a
woman and therefore refrains from rescuing a drowning woman. “With
purity of the vessels he is strict, and with bloodshed he is lax.”
Purity of vessels, that is, technical laws, cause contempt for the
most severe prohibition of all--bloodshed.
--Refusal to provide
medicine when it is known that this refusal is life-threatening,
because the patient does not have a doctor’s prescription, etc.
--Lack of the
“dimension of height” abandons the opposites, “belonging and
freedom” to their own destructive clash. Freedom is pulled toward
abandon, and belonging is pulled toward slavery. This conflict
creates a reverse reaction. “A slave is comfortable with moral
abandon.” Abandon meets slavery, and gives birth to treason. Treason
brings guilt, in a vicious cycle that goes round and round,
tightening its grip at every turn. Freedom and belonging together
form the noose around one’s neck: Strangulation and creativity.
--Similarly, a vicious
cycle can appear with the duty/pleasure pair of opposites.
[4] Linking
emotion to mind: Though he was constantly reading religious
philosophy books, the Talmud scholar was tormented by religious
doubts. I advised him to focus on developing the emotion of personal
gratitude.
[5] Linking "doing" to feeling: For
example: Hatavat halom, "improving a
dream." A young girl dreams a painful dream about her father. Hatavat halom links the painful feeling
created by the dream to the mind, which gives a positive
interpretation to the dream – alongside a practical linking: Doing
the action required for "improving a dream", fasting the "fast for a
dream", actions such as repentance, prayer, and charity, and the
actual going to the sage who improves the dream.
[6] Lack of reciprocity creates a flawed
morality, in that this morality serves the ego, and is not linked to
the value or the objectivity of the ‘head,’ nor to the values of
spirit.
‘Heart’ and ‘hand’ without ‘head’ create
enslavement to and dependency upon the brute force level of reality,
according to the mighty-weak law of the jungle. This level is
characterized by immorality, because it lacks the “dimension of
height”.
Behind
every fact stands a theory, but behind every theory, it is not
certain that there stands a fact..
‘Head’ and ‘heart’ without 'hand': Politics,
detached ideology.
This is the reason, apparently,
that women do not show interest in politics, thanks to their bond
with reality, stronger in degree and in kind than the man's,
Politics, like business, is a result of the package coming undone:
Head and hand without heart, and sometimes head and heart without
hand, or alternatively, heart and hand without head, and it all runs
according to the system of external pressures, because they belong
to the type of behaviors that run in the following direction: From
outer to inner, and even from outer (the self-preservation system)
to outer. Absurdity celebrates in either case.
According to this, the
leader's personality can be seen in a new light. A leader in
general, and the modern leader in particular, requires a harmonious
personality, in which are merged 'head,' 'hand' and 'heart' in
solid, indivisible form that makes them, most importantly, resistant
to pressure.
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