Parshat Vayyiggash

Vayyiggash – "And He approached":
Three Approaches – Three Fundamental Principles

The saintly Or Hahaim commented:

Indeed, the plain sense of Scriptures is that it is well-known that the custom of kings was that the great men of the kingdom and the kings' ministers sat before them, and if an individual came on a judicial matter, or on a matter concerning the king, he would not stand in the space separating the king from his ministers, who sat first in the kingdom, rather he would stand outside the circle and speak from there. Judah had spoken according to this fashion until this point; only afterwards did he approach him [Joseph], that is to say, did he venture beyond the divide and stand between the king and his ministers, so that no one could hear him except for the king.

What did Judah whisper to Joseph after he crossed the divide? A conversation of kings? As face answers to face in water, so does one man's heart to another (Proverbs 27:19); as befits two brothers who discover that one common blood flows through their veins; certainly they did not conduct a negotiation between slave and king.

The attempt to reflexively ascribe logic to Judah's string of arguments seems unconvincing. For the three methods of approaching an enemy that Judah had learned from his father – presents, prayer and combat – are only effective when utilized in a carefully orchestrated manner. Prayer is always necessary, before, during and after the encounter. However, prayer, unlike presents and combat, has its own intrinsic worth. Indeed, presents and combat are diametrically opposed entities. Presents are only effective when given at the beginning. For what purpose is there in going to war, if an understanding can be peaceably reached. In the case of Jacob and Esau, presents did the trick and a war was avoided.

Judah opens his argument with the words "for you are as Pharoah"(Gen 40:18) – "if you provoke me, I will murder you and your master"; he threatens war and only thereafter offers a compromise, slavery. This approach does not seem to mirror the three-phased one adopted by Jacob. For here phase one does not lead to phase two; rather, there seems to be a mixture of conflicting claims. Joseph's demand that Benjamin be brought before him to prove the veracity of the brothers' story and their integrity does not make sense in light of the serious nature of their alleged crimes. So too, finding the goblet in Benjamin's sack does not readily translate into Joseph's attempt to turn this prince into a slave. Perhaps, Judah's attempt to rationalize the unfolding events is as questionable as Joseph's attempt to put into play a series of libels to prove the brothers' malicious intent. Why did Judah believe that Joseph would accept his arguments? What crisis point was reached that led Joseph to lift his veil?

Perhaps, we have before us an important lesson regarding how to deal with the mysteries of existence. An enigma opposing or wrapped in a riddle; the absurd facing the absurd, in keeping with the credo "with an upright person act uprightly, with a scoundrel act villainously"(cf. Psalms 18:26-27) Answer the dolt as befits his doltishness. Do not try to educate a fool.

The Torah approach to the riddle of existence: when you are faced with two verses that contradict one another, search for the solution in the third verse which reconciles between them. That is to say, do not fall into the net of the romantics who search for the solution above or beyond the boundaries of life, and do not get caught up in the angst of the existentialists who have completely despaired of a solution. Life is only an unsolvable riddle for those who deny the heavenly entourage. A retinue which peers beyond the cracks in the mechanistic veil of two-dimensional existence. Search for the divine presence beyond the pargod, the screen, in order to find the logic and purpose in existence. To find eternity in the ephemeral and the kernel of truth through what transpires, as a product of the kingdom of illusions. The simple understanding really is not beyond the sea; there is no need to cut oneself off from reality in order to reach the heavens. It is in your mouth and in your heart to observe it (cf. Deut 31:13-14). Truth grows in the moist soil of the human heart; its language is the language of the heart and its rationale is composed of good character traits: compassion, love and kindness.

This is the language Judah used in talking with Joseph after he demonstrated his strength in the realm of power and in the realm of the spirit; let the law take its course (literally, cut through the mountain). We lawfully sold our brother, and, notwithstanding, his blood is demanded of us. There is a reason why this is transpiring, an incontrovertible reason that pierces the veils of time and circumstance. We are not being accused of theft; rather the blood of our brother is demanded of us, for we failed to see the distress he was in when he pleaded with us. Judah, proving that he has understood Joseph, proclaims the sanctity of life, and discards his belief in an idea that demands life be sacrificed on its behalf, an ideological approach which Joseph from the very beginning had viewed as foreign and dangerous. (See Exodus 5764, for further elucidation of this fundamental principle.)

On a more profound level, Joseph learns along with Judah during the course of their princely encounter. He too learns a lesson. He both learns and teaches about the fundamental basis upon which existential matters are constructed. What is the difference between a solid basis upon which existence rests and a "dependency" or "reliance" upon which existence only appears to depend? If the lesson to be learned is that "we can only rely upon our Father who art in heaven," why did G-d engender or create such a vast plurality of things or matters, the attempt to find the rationale linking them is bound to end in failure.

Trust in G-d, and do not engage in unnecessary extraneous striving (hishtadlut ). If dependency thrives here. And if the striving involves finding something to rely upon, one must diligently strive to construct reality out of specific individual components of existence, based upon a rigid recipe (the halakha), composed of substantial divine presence and the tangible components of reality. This is a task demanding devotion and care that cannot tolerate negligence which may destabilize the delicate balance of the whole system. The supernal system whose components have substance is an extremely vulnerable structure for it is built upon an inherent contradiction. Its balance is dynamic; it is constantly undergoing a process of remaking itself, which can be destabilized by the treatment it receives from its guardian, who holds the key to its balance that is from the man who worships G-d.

The key holder is not simply a human being called upon to create an encounter between and join heaven and earth; rather, the human being possessing spiritual and human quality proactively facilitates the diligent integration of the two. In keeping with the verse, "man was born to toil," man who is tasked with facilitating the meeting between spirit and matter, may not suffice with letting the encounter develop on its own. He must take an active role for in this meeting of opposites disaster looms for spirit and matter can cancel each other out. The divine worshipper is charged with the ultimate creative challenge, to insert supernal contents into the lower realm, to insert meaning into matter while diligently monitoring the developing ongoing balance.

The Shabbat – A Return to the Original Balance: The Role of the Divine Worshipper on Shabbat is to Focus Upon Observing the Shabbat. He is Relieved of His Obligation to Focus Upon Creating the Balance Himself

Only on Shabbat is it appropriate to loosen the diligent monitoring of the balance. "One who toiled upon Shabbat eve, will eat on Shabbat;" that is to say, one who diligently toiled to achieve a proper balance during the six days of the week, when Shabbat arrives, for him rest arrives, the solid base which the world has been founded upon since it was created is revealed; a foundation independent of man, existent by its own right; the revelation of the divine presence, revealed as the basis of sanctity, upon which the mundane (hol) rests and is constructed without a separation between them.

Prayer – the request for a division between the sanctified and the mundane expresses the desire of the person praying to distinguish between holy and mundane; a distinction which is dynamic in nature for the holy is the essence of both parties. On Shabbat the dynamic activity is extraneous and unnecessary for it may blur the essence. The ability or power to see the essence clearly, notwithstanding the dynamic striving of the mundane weekdays, is at the root of the quest to draw a distinction. The apparent opposition between toil and rest is at the root of the divine worshipper's trial.

Trust in G-d which stands in direct contradistinction to the obligation to strive (hishtadlut ) does not hang upon a hook high above reality or outside of it; rather, it rests upon the solid basis of the sense of tangibility possessed by the divine presence, upon which reality is constructed and which enables the divine presence to be actualized. Judah and Joseph share their opinions on this matter. Judah whispers in Joseph's ear that he learned the lesson regarding the human foundation, a message which he is not ashamed to admit he learned from Joseph's tragedy. Joseph is not ashamed to admit that he has learned more about the contents of this human foundation; contents made up of divine values whose only expressions are found in the human foundation. Aside from these contents there is no value which endows the distinction between king and slave with supreme meaning.

"We are both kings," says Judah to Joseph, "and we are both obligated to uphold the supreme value. In order to uphold this supreme value, I have no difficulty becoming your slave; however, you must accept this principle too and agree that your servitude to us in days gone by was also "for the sake of Heaven," to defend our father's Torah of truth. We did what we did, albeit mistakenly, for the sake of Heaven, not because we gave into the despicable traits of jealousy, hatred or pride, heaven forbid."

Joseph happily discovers that the subject's goal, the goal of the divine man determines divine truth; a principle for which he was willing to make the absolute sacrifice, though feeling abandoned and alone in his battle; "I am a Hebrew" (literally, one from the other side); "for I was surely stolen from the land of the Hebrews"(Gen 40:15). The pain of Joseph's grandfather Abraham, for he too was alone in the world; Abraham was on one side and the world was on the other. To his surprise Joseph discovered that when one is acting for the sake of Heaven, like a kosher mikveh (ritual bath), this intention, this end, purifies all the means – the means of existence and its components – leading to that goal.

Tears of joy sprang from his eyes. "And Joseph could not restrain himself"(Gen 45:1). Were these really tears of joy? Is this not a contradiction in terms – tears and joy? Joseph is attempting to prove to his brothers that there are no separate tracks in divine service. The brothers wept and Joseph wept. Each river flows in its own way. A dangerous tendency toward pluralism seems to be developing here. One party, the Lithuanian Jew, barricades himself behind the walls of the halakha, crying out let the law cut through the mountain (literally, take its course). The other party rides upon a wave of romantic emotion carried away from shore to the open sea where there is no defined path or purpose.

Both ignore reality which demands that attention be paid to those blocking the way in order to sanctify matter. This approach is the only one that enables the divine presence to be actualized in the world. Depending upon heaven while separating oneself from the earth is not Jacob's way, neither is drowning oneself in waves of emotion, an approach devoid of permanence and clearly defined values and Jewish law. The ladder is set upon the earth upon the foundation of divine substance, not upon the illusion of permanence and solidity found in the material world; Reliance becomes aware that ever-lasting concreteness is not solely dependent upon reality. Trust in the Lord means recognizing the concrete reality of the divine foundation as a given foundation upon which, and, only upon which, the entire reality of creation is constructed. Trust without questioning this foundation endows the believer with a pure perception of the heavens and the earth as one; everything that occurs, both in the public sphere and the private one, here and now and in the distant future depends upon this foundation.

A worldview which encompasses ends and means, and prevents man from making the mistake of separating them. Joseph's, the righteous man's, prayers arise out his longing that his brothers and all the members of his father's household understand this complex reality. After hammering out the matter with Judah, who represented the brother's worldview, Joseph was convinced that his brothers had reached an understanding similar to his own, albeit while starting from the opposite end. For they had begun with the halakhic reality which ignores the existential reality at whose center is humankind, and reached the awareness of divine unity. To Joseph's joy, after the brothers realized Joseph's pain, they made human suffering central to their worldview, an issue which was not to be ignored.

To Joseph's surprise, after proving that sweetness can come from strength, after discovering the possibility of revealing the truth by rubbing elbows with crime, a surprising discovery that passing through the dark passageways of evil is like entering a smelting furnace which purifies the good and pure, removing their impurities, a limitation which is choking at times; after attempting to frequent the warm protective bosom of the pure of heart, before being forced to confront external reality, before his encounter with the [evil] inclination which crouches at the heart's entrance. When Joseph discovered the possibility of man's redemption through suffering, he remembered his suffering, and for the first time broke into an emancipating flood of tears.

The foundation upon which the world rests, upon which man merited constructing the divine presence, contains the Shekhinah (Divine Presence) which along with the Israelites was exiled to Egypt and which suffered in watching the Israelites suffering and was pained by their pain. From this we may conclude that the Shekhinah is the actualization of the divine presence within man. In line with this realization, we can resolve Nahmanides' astonishment in grappling with the problematics of punishment raised by Maimonides in the first part of The Guide for the Perplexed. Likewise, we can explain the saintly Or Hahaim's ranking of the Shekhinah's presence in the congregation of the Lord, in the Temple, among ten, among three, and even with one Israelite who is immersing himself in Torah study. Apparently, the presence does not descend from above; rather, the divine creation of presence is the product of the divine worshipper's laboring in the vineyards of the Lord, whatever level he may be on. See Nahmanides 41:1, and Or Hahaim 3:

So I will teach you that the levels of the Shekhinah's light are many. For you will find that ten who sit and immerse themselves in Torah study … the Shekhinah dwells among them, and even among two [who do so] or [even] one … But certainly, there are an infinite number of levels of the Shekhinah dwelling among them, as the exoteric Torah (be-sod) teaches "For the lofty one guards …"[cf. Eccl 5:7], and the light will be multiplied by his dwelling, in keeping with the essence of the one who turns (the cause) the Shekhinah dwells"

This passage supports our argument that man is the cause; created in G-d's image, he can provoke the divine presence concealed within his divine foundation to transform itself from being a potential to an active force. This ability does not depend upon the conditions or the will of anyone but him, when he recognizes his being the divine foundation and his ability to expose this foundation. "It is not in the heavens nor beyond the sea … It is in your mouth and your heart to do it" (cf. Deut 31:13-14). This is the entirety of man's role in his world, and an element within all his labor, to be the footstool of the Shekhinah which radiates from within him.

A reality of substance is only attained when man has transformed reality with the divine presence. Notably, many people, among them the brightest and the best, have been caught up by superficial thinking and understand divine reality to be inherently different than existential reality. As if the divine worshipper lives on a different planet refusing to take part in or consider his surrounding environment, ignoring it as if it does not exist. The biographies written about the gedolim – spiritual giants – do indeed tell their life stories in this vein. As if divine worship transcends ever-changing reality. As if the gedolim succeeded by freezing reality and transcending it both in terms of space and time. But this is not so. Divine worship is the art of revealing in every situation, be it a good one or one less good, the quality of the divine presence which is always visible.

The divine worshipper's presence in a particular reality teaches him that he is charged with exposing the holiness inherent in it. If the reality at hand is particularly difficult to explain, the divine worshipper will view his presence as a compliment, a badge of honor awarded him by divine providence which recognizes his ability to transform the confusing reality into a sanctification of the divine name. Indeed, he expressly fails to view his presence as an attempt to test him by causing him pain. The righteous individual relies upon his interaction with the reality he finds himself in to enable him to fulfill his duty of turning his potential abilities into an active force.

This insight provides the background for understanding a key passage in Rabbi Haim of Volozhin's Nefesh ha-Haim :

In truth, it is a great matter and a wonderful harbinger of good things to come (segulah ) [for a man] to cast off and void all laws and other desires so that they cannot govern him and make no impression upon him at all. When a man determines in his heart to declare that Hashem is the true G-d, and there is no other force like Him, may He be blessed, in the world, … and everything is filled solely with His unity … and he [this man] completely voids [all the above mentioned] in his heart, and he pays no heed to any force or will in the world, and he enslaves and attaches the purity of his thoughts exclusively to the one Master, blessed is He, so that He, blessed be He, may cause with His mighty hand that all the forces and wills in the world nullify themselves in so far as this individual is concerned, so that they can have no effect on him whatsoever.

A superficial analysis of this wondrous and holy passage would tend to lead its student to explain R. Haim of Volozhin's approach in the following manner. Remain oblivious to the diversity and uniqueness in the particular situation by grasping the divine kernel of reality buried within it and ignoring all else. However, this in fact, is an incorrect reading, the opposite is true. Man must carefully analyze the particulars composing a specific reality searching for its inherent and unique character which differentiates it from every other form of reality. By attaining this understanding, he can express the divine kernel hidden within this reality and within its components and the unique particulars characterizing it.

Contrasting Abraham and Noah: Abraham differed from Noah in the following manner. Noah was dependent upon the Creator, "and Noah walked with G-d" (Gen 6:9); he was obedient; he performed only what G-d commanded. The divine reality was kept tightly sealed in the ark; it did not belong in the world. In contrast, Abraham knew how to turn every situation into a divine reality including unexpected ones and including those situations which were impossible to integrate into natural reality. Abraham was not dependent upon G-d. He knew how to rely upon the divine truth that was within him, as the verse indicates "walk before me"(Gen 17:1).

A similar distinction seems to apply to the Messiah, descended from Joseph, and the Messiah, descended from David. Joseph strove for absolute perfection and integrated emotion with intellect while constraining them and integrating them perfectly into the halakhic track. This radical demand for perfection could not be made of the masses; only the perfect integration of the measures of justice and of mercy belongs to those divine worshippers who only reached the exedra (the outer hall or porch). Therefore, Joseph's approach is not viable for it cannot be adopted by the majority of existence or fulfill the needs of men. Therefore, Joseph died before his brothers and the Messiah, descended from Joseph, is killed. Notwithstanding, Joseph was held up as a role model so that those who chose to emulate him might come close to perfection; for those who designate a goal built upon the principles of relativity, will never achieve more than mediocrity.

Therefore, the Messiah, descended from Joseph, precedes the Messiah, descended from David. The former is killed and the latter attains eternal life, for David is marked by relativity and called Adino the Eznite (II Samuel 23:8), busy with the foetal sac and the placenta of the common folks' existential needs while his head and shoulders – indeed, the focus of his being -- dallies in the supernal heights. In David, both these traits coexisted. Joseph in the face of Judah's acceptance of his complex position as the a priori one, perfectly composed of all of man's needs: the emotional and the intellectual, both included within the halakhic track. Joseph's path, the a priori one, paves the way for Judah.

Translated by Rabbi Meshulam Gotlieb
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