Parshat Vayyishlach

G-d, or the Godly, in Man

Truth, on the one hand, and creativity, on the other faithfully testify to the divine concealed within man. The evil inclination, representative of the bestial, of the self- preservation system within man, is designed to remind man that even if he is a god, his godhood is limited by his enslavement to lesser gods. Ironically, few and far between are the moments he is enveloped in godly light, and many and long are the hours he spends enveloped by darkness stemming from his enslavement to these lesser gods.

Jacob, the chosen patriarch, is charged with delving into the interiority of the human condition in order to set up a system ruled by the divine laws and fundamental principles within man. So that man is endowed with fangs and claws, the ability to enter the ring and grapple with the lesser gods. Commencing at this point in history, new players enter the ring. There are no longer two realms: firstly, G-d's realm promulgating ideals -- comprising divine providence, promises and most crucially, plans developed for man; and secondly the lower realm where truth has been cast down from the heights of the supernal realm to earth so that it can again erupt forth from within man. Instead there is one arena: man, himself, not the world, becomes the central arena where G-d and men grapple with one another.

This struggle determines the relationship between heaven and earth. The new rules of the game do not attribute the game's contributing factors to elements outside the human arena, neither those above it nor those beyond its horizon. "For the matter is very close to you, in your mouth and within your heart to do it," (Deut 31:14) for "it is not beyond reach [lit. distant from you]"(Deut 30:11). Thus, man has complete control over everything, including good and evil; everything is contingent upon what he decides to say – his mouth, his heart felt intentions, and his thoughtful decisions. Man, and only man, decides. Even wonders and miracles, among other phenomena which seem to deny this perception, stem from mans' choices.

"And Jacob took all these measures out of a deep sense of understanding so that he would not require a miracle" (Or HaHaim); "He feared greatly and was distressed"(Gen 32:7): He was afraid lest he be killed, and he was distressed that he might have to kill others"(Rashi). For Jacob sensed that both options had been given to him and he was responsible for pursuing them. This state gave rise to - "If Esau comes to one camp and smites it, the other camp may yet escape" (Gen 32:9) – the birth of the alternative, a key given to man; to be used for better or for worse, for a situation proffering several alternatives is an open one. Man is no longer forced to choose one of two defined objects, good or evil. His options are not closed off; his world is no longer narrow and delimited; rather, man stands facing himself as he confronts every possible reality. There is no longer an impossible reality. Man must search his deeds and find the solution, for it is within him, neither external to nor beyond him.

"I am unworthy of all the kindnesses and all the truth" (Gen 32:11). Our conception bypasses the commentators who attempt to define Jacob's sense of unworthiness and determine what the source of it was. From whence stemmed Jacob's suspicion, they ask, that he no longer merited the fulfillment of G-d's promise, a promise that had been made explicitly to him several times in response to his own merit and that of his forefathers? Perhaps my sins have caused this. What sins [did Jacob commit]? When did Jacob manage to sin? If we examine the conflict arena, as we have described it, Jacob is not referring to the conflict between two distinct entities whose relationship must be examined, but rather to the two poles within one entity; Jacob's sense of unworthiness stems from the arena of internal conflict where there is a never-ending battle between truth and falsehood, good and evil, and who standing next to Jacob can proclaim that in the end good and truth will out.

"Of all the kindness and all the truth"(Gen 32:11) Jacob, who brought truth down from the heavens, knew the web of difficulties inherent in the distorted reality, suffused with falsehoods attributable to self-interest, that truth was decreed to dwell within. Man can never be certain that the evil urge and its temptations are not hiding behind the truth, speaking in its name. Kindness, Abraham's trait, successfully settled in this world. Even rogues and thieves are capable of acts of kindess; see, for instance, the legendary figure of Robin Hood, the English bandit, who robbed from the rich to feed the poor. The Torah describes the favors of a woman who departs from the straight and narrow path as "it is a kindness"(Lev 20:17, Rashi, ad locum , a disgrace).

Gevurah (might or strength), the ability to relinquish one's soul for HaKadosh Baruch Hu, also receives a place of honor in this world. Youth empowered by the spirit throw away their lives with reckless abandon. Even those base monstrous creatures belonging to the ranks of the homicidal Moslems, the shihadim , may their names be obliterated, commit suicide in order to murder others.

Notwithstanding its immense success in penetrating and finding a firm lodging place in mankinds' psyche, only the truth belonging to Jacob fails to govern mans' behavior. The truth's success manifests itself solely in its ability to pester man causing pangs of conscience which introduce into play an abundant variety of hesitations and doubts producing a situation of Oy li me-Yotsri – Oy li me-yitstri (Woe is to me from my Creator - Woe is to me from my creatureliness [evil inclination or urge]). Truth, on the one hand, succeeds in weakening the evil doer's resolve so that he is unsure whether he should commit his evil deeds; however, on the other hand, it also "succeeds" in weakening the resolve of the righteous individual in his pursuit of the paths of Hashem. Camouflaged by humility and a persistent questioning of whether the deeds of the righteous are performed "for the sake of the mitzvah" -- questioning that raise doubts concerning "who has appointed you as our leader and savior"(cf. Ex 2:14 ), for there are others greater than you -- truth undermines the resolve of the righteous individual, for the truly righteous individual is prone to believing that all others are greater than himself.

Many have expressed astonishment at Jacob's excessive subservience in his dealings with Esau -- calling Esau "my master," bowing many times and putting immense effort into the encounter -- which seem to indicate his lack of complete confidence in G-d's deliverance. In contrast, our Sages, of blessed memory, viewed Jacob's dealings with Esau as a blueprint for how to interact with foreign monarchs: Do not become intimate with the ruling authorities etc. (Cf. Avot 1:10)

Here too, the extensive contemplation and the multiple aspects of the matter relate to the multifaceted, personal, internal reality. From herein stems the internal strength which determines the entire external reality when the godly -- or G-d -- within man succeeds in overcoming the temptations of the evil urge and adheres to the supernal deity. For this reason: G-d referred to Jacob as e-l (G-d). Jacob struggled with the force of truth inside him, with the power of G-d – whose seal is truth – within him, even with the kingdom of heaven. From this point in history and on, a new man possessing powers capable of dealing with the forces of nature connected to him and with whom he is connected, and even capable of influencing heavenly decrees -- fulfilling the credo "that which a righteous man decrees, HaKadosh Baruch Hu brings to fruition" -- is born. For "the righteous man rules through his fear of Hashem".

"And a man wrestled with him until the crack of dawn" (Gen 32:25); "For you have striven with beings divine and human [lit. G-d and men] and [by using the force of divine truth] have prevailed"(Gen 32:29). When man triumphs and succeeds in governing himself through the measure of truth, overcoming the temptations of the evil inclination, he attains a level of divinity which no force in heaven or upon earth can withstand, as the verse recounts "And Jacob came to Shalem (or read, 'And Jacob arrived whole or perfect')" (Gen 33:18). Two points require further elucidation: How did the angel manage to strain Jacob's hip socket to the point where he acquired a permanent limp? Why did the vanquisher need the blessing of the vanquished?

Nahmanides considers the limp a symbol (siman) of the injury caused to the Jewish people by "the evil men of the nations." This injurious behavior recurs again and again, in period after period, as the story of Jewish suffering unfolds during the Jews' sojourn in the Diaspora. "This is the Generation of Destruction (shemad)" to use the language of our Sages, of blessed memory. In light of our understanding that human beings through a process occurring within themselves, are the principals in determining what happens to them -- as divine man is not enslaved to external reality -- the injury done to righteous people must be interpreted as relating to the internal conflict man undergoes. This conflict may be summed up by the credo "Woe is to me from my Creator - Woe is to me from my creatureliness [evil inclination or urge]" or by the battle between the character traits where some resolution between them is reached momentarily as kindness overcomes truth in the never-ending tension prevailing between them, gevurah joins with kindness, or some other arrangement is obtained.

Sticking up for the truth is a central component in creating strength; however, doing so is also a major contributing factor to creating tension between it and all the other traits. This tension opens up the space for the divine worshipper's expression of his own personality in terms of his relationship with reality surrounding him. As well, it stimulates intellectual ferment and renewal, giving rise to additional enthusiasm that creates new spiritual energies and powers; all this under the sign of free choice expressing the colossal power of the individual persona and its human and spiritual quality .

This battle of the titans does not resolve itself without losses and damage. These damages, it is important to note, may be classified as "passing blemishes;" injuries which leave behind them a wealth of experience and leave the injured immunized in the face of the trial to come. These battles operate under the credos of "go from strength to strength" (Psalms 84:8), or "seven [times] will the righteous fall – and get up."(Proverbs 24:16) They teach us that the road to perfection is full of pitfalls and traps that should be bypassed for trials should not be sought out nor miracles relied upon. For this reason, Jacob prayed requesting divine assistance. However bypassing these tribulations, as has been noted, is not the certain road either for journeying through the maze cannot be avoided if one wishes to reach the inner sanctum.

"I will not set you free, unless you bless me"(Gen 32:27). This is the blessing of strength and completion which the wrestler obtains by participating in the religiously-mandated battle thrust upon him. Only this war brings with it a blessing for the combatant, for both sides are under the warrior's control. As the wise man commented upon the verse "when you go forth to make war upon your enemies"(Deut 20:10): Go forth from the minor war (the external one) to the major war (the war against the evil inclination). The angel's blessing promises victory in the internal wars.

This insight leads to an understanding that Jacob's confrontations' possess a dual meaning. As soon as the parsha commences, when Jacob receives his messengers' reports after they visit Esau's camp – "We came to your brother … and he is also coming to meet you"(Gen 32:7) – Rashbam comments: "… and you have found favor in his eyes, as you wished, and here he is; due to his joy at your coming and his love for you, he has come to meet you with four hundred men in your honor". The other commentators, it should be noted, do not agree with the Rashbam's positive take on the verse. However, the very possibility of understanding the matter at hand in a variety of dissimilar and even contradictory ways has intrinsic worth. For this teaches us that Jacob had sole control over how the situation would unfold.

Jacob remains firm in his decision to give Esau gifts so as not to remain indebted to him, and in order not to accept favors creating dependency upon the giver and weakness in the taker. One who hates gifts will live (Proverbs15:27). Taking weakens. Giving strengthens. On the path to independence, "And Jacob came to Shalem (or read, 'And Jacob arrived whole or complete')"(Gen 33:18): complete in body, for his limp had been healed; complete financially, for giving the gifts made no dent in his fortune; with his Torah knowledge intact - he did not forget what he had learned while he sojourned in Laban's house. (Rashi, Shabbat 33b) Did Jacob really experience no financial loss after giving these exceedingly generous gifts? From this we may learn that giving creates additional wealth and power, and most importantly control.

"But they replied: 'Should our sister be treated like a whore?'" (Gen 34:31) If Dinah's bothers were justified in their actions, why did Jacob rebuke them saying, "You have brought trouble upon me"(Gen 34:30); "Cursed be their anger"(Gen 49:7).

Seemingly the Torah relates with greater negativity to a whore than to a man who has transgressed. The Torah does not refuse to accept transgressors' Temple contributions made in order to offer sacrifices; Only the profits of prostitution – "the fee of a whore or the pay of a dog [male prostitute]"(Deut 23:19) – are rejected by the Torah. The whore seemingly offers herself up to the public, and in so doing loses her private persona and all her other claims to aspects of being a human being, valuable for being wrought in the image of G-d. The "pay of a dog" is also an offering that has lost its value as an offering brought in lieu of the fat and the blood of the one offering it; for, apparently, it is to be perceived as an object (its price, the value of a dog), as the animal's value, which is not representative of the offering's owner for he most foolishly exchanged his offering for a dog's value.

The Torah takes the descent of mans' spiritual values to the level where he is understood to be a random object with great seriousness, viewing this act as a fundamental transgression, which shakes the very foundations of divinity. Individual transgressions may be judged one way or another, sometimes using the measure of strict judgment and sometimes applying the measure of mercy. However, mercy cannot be applied to a crime that uproots the divine basis from reality and exposes it to be an exclusively utilitarian object. Seemingly, for this reason, the Germans, may their memory be erased, were singled out for eternal disgrace because they intended to turn their victims into anonymous objects, into numbers.

"You have brought trouble upon me."(Gen 34:30) "Cursed be their anger for it is fierce"(Gen 49:7) Notwithstanding their apparently acceptable self-justification, Jacob takes a very harsh stance toward Simeon's and Levi's actions. This is caused by the fact that Jacob understands man to be an independent entity who does not weigh his actions in the light of external conditions, but rather chooses to act in consonance with the absolute values of his interior world. Jacob's lashes out in pain at his sons who became involved in a brawl with street punks, notwithstanding their claim that the punks threw the first punch, not them. For Jacob, the father, claims that this confrontation is beneath his sons' dignity and not in keeping with the family's honor; it is inappropriate to descend to the base level of the punks and enter into negotiations with them.

What should the brothers have done in keeping with Jacob's approach? Nahmanides distinguishes between pin-point and collective punishment:

… for they had done violence to the men of the city whom they had told in his presence, And we will dwell with you, and we will become one people . They would have chosen to believe in G-d and trust their word, and perhaps they might have returned to G-d and thus Simeon and Levi killed them without cause for the people had done them no evil at all (Chavel, 1971, 419)

The city's inhabitants, as opposed to Shechem's men, should have been dealt with mercifully. For the important men of the city, those close to the royal family, Hamor's family, were wicked:

Jacob's sons wanted to take vengeance of them with a vengeful sword, and so they killed the king and all the men of his city who were his subjects, obeying his commands. The covenant represented by the circumcision of the inhabitants of Shechem had no validity in the eyes of Jacob's sons for it was done to curry favor with their master (Chavel, 1971, 419)

According to Nahmanides the brothers meted out justice measure for measure. Shechem and his cohorts turned Dinah, daughter of Jacob, into a sexual object; the brothers in turn tempted them into also becoming sexual objects, for they did not enter the covenant (a partnership comprised of holiness and responsibility among the covenantal partners) with HaKadosh Baruch Hu; rather, they perceived the enactment of the covenant to be a sterile meaningless act.

In those days, at that time; today, it would also be appropriate to follow Jacob's sage advice, dealing harshly, as his sons did, with those Arab leaders who fan the flames of hatred and govern the masses of common people measure for measure.

Translated by Rabbi Meshulam Gotlieb
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